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The author, trying to operate masc. Image supplied.

I&#;m what you&#;d call a &#;fem&#; gay guy. Which isn&#;t really a problem until I go on Grindr. Most people think the popular hook-up app that gay men love to hate is just about sex. But for a lot of guys, Grindr is all about organism masculine.

Masculinity—that beefy barometer of one&#;s manhood—is one of the most sought after qualities for men on the app. Often people will brand their profiles with aggressive declarations of &#;masc 4 masc&#; and &#;straight-acting only.&#;

For some, being masc is a kind of rebellion, pushing back against the &#;fem&#; or camp stereotype of gay men. In the wider world, gayness is still often measured by how effeminate you are, how strong your lisp is or how many Cher albums you own. As opposed to, say, how much you like fucking guys.

I&#;ve long been an outcast of the &#;masc 4 masc&#; culture fostered on Grindr. To be masc, you need the muscled gym bod, the minor gruff voice, and excessive body hair. Admittedly, I don&#;t have the body of an Adonis, or the low voice of a country music celebrity. And because I lack an obsession

When Hot Straight or Masculine Dudes hang out with Effeminate Gay Dudes

There is this observably gay guy at the gym that is fairly flamboyant and stereotypical. Today, he came to the gym with a hot buff jet jock type dude I presumed was straight. They worked out together and acted like best bros. I found myself wondering if the hot guy was messing Around with the gay dude on the DL. I dislike thinking that because I hate it when people ask me if my straight male friends contain been with me. Perform others tend to ponder this type of prurient thoughts about straight-gay dude relationships?

by Anonymous

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September 5, PM

I've been pretty femmy and pretty all my life. Straight guys acquire hit on me in a jokey way or been friends with me and I have even had some "experiment" with me. In those situations, it always felt enjoy they wanted to glimpse what it would be like with a same-sex attracted guy and I was about as gay as they come. Sort of like when anyone wants to try something diverse, they pick the most stereotypical version of that they can find.

by Anonymous

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January 18, PM

Straight and bi guys love femmes and trannys

by Anonymous

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January 18, PM

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