Straight men experimenting with men
Sexual identities and sexual behaviours don’t always match because sexuality is multidimensional. Many people recognizesexual fluidity, and some even identify as “mostlystraight.”
Fewer people understand that some men and womenhave same-sex encounters, yet nonetheless perceive themselves as exclusively straight. And these people are not necessarily “closeted” gays, lesbians or bisexuals.
When a closeted gay or bisexual bloke has sex with another man, he views that sex as reflecting his secret identity. He is not open about that identity, likely because he fears discrimination. When a straight man has sex with another man, however, he views himself as straight despite his sex with men.
In my book, Still Straight: Sexual Flexibility among White Men in Rural America, I investigate why some men who identify as direct have sex with other men. Large nationally model surveys show that hundreds of thousands of linear American men — at least — have had sex with two or more other men. This finding represents a disconnect between identity and behaviour, and researchers from around the world - in the United States, Australia and the U.K. - have studied this topic.
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Straight Males and Gay Experimentation
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Quite simply, I’m wondering how common it is for self-identifying direct males to experiment with homosexuality. Sorry if this comes off as asking for TMI, or if it’s in the incorrect forum (seemed too "what’s your personal experience?) for GD.
Being gay and having gay friends, I perceive a lot about 2 kinds of dealings with straight guys. The first is youthful experimentation, before the participants are fully aware or comfortable with their sexual orientation. I personally never had such experiences, I didn’t contain sexual contact with anyone until I was fairly mature and comfortable with my sexuality.
The other contact is the kind of thing you hear about more in erotic fiction or porn, which is the sleeping with the straight guy AFTER they’re both older and arrange in their sexual orientation. I’ve had friends discuss about how they’ve “gotten with” straight guys just because the timing was right, a guy was horny or what acquire you. Again, I perceive nothing of the sort, and always considered vertical guys to be completely unattainable.
Now, I don’t contain too many straight male friends, and those I do have I’ve never asked a
14."I went on a trip to a tropical state. I found a petite, secluded, resort-type place with a bar while exploring the area. I spent the entire day there while the male, initial 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one show, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go read by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't include to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me..."
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came back with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could endeavor, and at this signal I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting life. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been
20.And this super sexy serenade that led to a series of hookups:
"Four years ago, my best acquaintance and I were hanging in my house and playing Borderlands. I had recently read online about the 'I have a CRUSH on you' achievement, and thought it would be easy enough to do. When I asked him to help me with it, he turned a vibrant shade of red. After teasing him a little, I asked him if something was wrong. He then not only came out to me, but confessed that he had a passion on me. I was a little shocked, but I told him, 'Wow. One: I should hold known, considering you hold the entire musical Wicked memorized. Two: You really have poor taste in men.'
"He playfully pushed me over and straddled me, saying 'While both are true, remember I'm the same guy; I can still kick your scrawny ass.' We laughed, until I realized we were making dick-to-dick contact through our athletic shorts. I got hard, he got hard, we both got hella embarrassed. He took a deep breath, leaned in and started singing a song I now know as 'Dead Girl Walking.' When I tried to squirm away he leaned in and kissed me.
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