Having a gay boyfriend
Unravelling the mystery behind the question, &#;Why can&#;t I find a gay boyfriend?&#;
We&#;ve all been there &#; frustrated, lonely, and wondering if we&#;re destined to be the only solo person in a nature of happy couples.
Maybe you&#;ve gone on countless dates, tried all the dating apps, or even dabbled in some questionable matchmaking services, but nothing seems to pan out. You may find yourself asking, &#;Why can&#;t I find a boyfriend?&#; and feeling a bit stuck. Fear not, because I&#;m here to help you navigate the rocky terrain of dating (or at least understand what is going wrong and where), so you can identify the love you deserve.
It can be incredibly disheartening when your attempts at finding a boyfriend continually fall flat. You might feel trapped in a pattern of bad dates and missed connections or be craving the companionship that seems to elude you. Rest assured, you&#;re not alone in feeling this way. We all need a bit of support and understanding as we navigate the changeable world of gay dating.
Now, let&#;s address the burning question: Why can&#;t I find a gay boyfriend? The truth is, result a partner is a process that requires period, effort, and a b
How I Met My Boyfriend
It’s rare that love gets a second chance, two years ago I launch mine. Sometimes it can sneak up on you and sit beside you at the bar. I didn&#;t want to trust it, but it happened to me.
All My Ex’s Live In …
About 27 years ago I met, who at the period, I thought would be the one I spent the rest of my life with. It would seem that fate decided that he would be in my life a short time but would teach me a lot. At the time, I thought that I would never love again and would spend my experience alone. What he taught me, in retrospect, was what I should be looking for in an adult relationship. Only, I wasn’t ready for it at the time.
Along the way, others only reinforced the kinds of relationships I didn&#;t need. Sure, many of them were fun at the second. Don&#;t most of us enjoy the bad male child types?
As we age we realize that they are like candy and not good for us.
Can I Ax You A Question
Flash forward to almost two years ago…
It was a chilly March night in in downtown Willoughby. My favorite haunt was a bar called All Ax’s, sadly it has closed. I decided that I wanted to head to the bar and view some friends and also work on my blog. I had been active on ar
Does Your Gay Boyfriend Overlook You?
This month’s blog announce features my answer to a question I received for my “Ask Adam” relationship advice column at
Dear Adam,
My boyfriend surfs the web while we watch TV together, never comes up with a plan for the weekend, and spends way too much time thinking about work. Otherwise he’s a good guy and I’m lucky to have him. But I’m afraid if I bring these issues up I’ll push him away or hurt him. How can I acquire him to pay me more attention?
Signed,
Annoyed in Akron
Dear Annoyed in Akron,
Here are the six most dangerous words to illustrate a LGBTQ relationship:
“We don’t talk about our relationship”.
Many couples can spend years—even decades &#; talking about a wide range of topics like politics, business, or their friends — but can’t talk about their relationship.
These are the distressed couples I often see in my couples counseling practice. The move of “we don’t speak about it” eventually leads to big relationship trouble.
Men rarely receive any teaching, modeling, or support for talking about their relationships. You can see it on TV: even the Real Housewives can expend an entire season talking about their relationship
If the thought has ever crossed your mind, &#;I think my boyfriend is gay&#;&#; this post is for you.
This is a subject that I hold wanted to write about for a very prolonged time. Why? Because I once dated a guy who was everything I had ever wanted, until&#; I found something that forever changed the foundation that our relationship was built on.
I was once that girl, who didn&#;t understand what to do or where to turn. A girl that found herself in the middle of the night Googling, &#;Is he gay? Is my boyfriend gay? I assess my boyfriend is gay&#; while *he* was sound asleep next to me &#; as seemingly NOT gay as ever. I had never had a connection with anyone appreciate this before. It couldn&#;t be. But then again, why did I locate what I found on his phone?
Not only did I not find anything from my Google searches, but I actually found a ton of junk out there that personally, I think is very disrespectful to the gay people. &#;If he hangs out with guys,&#; &#;If he spends longer doing his hair than you do,&#; &#;If he dances want (I don&#;t know what that even means),&#; &#;If he cares too much about his hygiene,&#; etc.
Since when did caring too much about your hygiene become
.